Chatting with strangers on some famous hookup apps can help us to know some real friends. However, sometimes, I am really mad at new people online. I don’t know if you have the same experience. Not every moment on those free dating apps are pleased.
After breaking up with my boyfriend, I decided to have a try on Hinge hookup dating site. I was fascinated by its slogan- using by deleting. Of course, I just wanted to get over my ex and started here. But then, I had my one year tour here. Now, I summarize five situations in which I am mad at.
The first situation is that I just get one-word reply. He said "Hey" and there was no news. I can feel that he wants me to make the first move on this random dating app. Of course, I don't mind. But if he can only say one word, he may want me to arrange everything for him. Aspiring men are more attractive not only in real world but also online. For me, I like to make the guy take the first move. Here are two reasons. The first reason is that guys will cherish us more when they spend much time pursuing us. And another reason is that I am also lazy. I don’t want to waste time on boring people.
The second situation is that I just get nude pictures of my potential partners. This can be totally frustrated. I never want to get nude photos even I want to find one night stands. Some male users will just send us his nude photos. Never do this again! It is an offensive behavior for us. If you really want to show your charm, please spend much time and energy chatting with us. If we can feel your sincerity, we will consider have deep communication on those anonymous dating apps.
The third situation is that you have no where to go for this dating. You are so happy that you can go out for dinner with a guy. However, the places he chooses are too far from you. You want to ask him to pick you up, but it is the first date. You know this guy from group dating sites and you know nothing about him. You cannot ask him to pick you up for safety reasons. But he is not as gentle as I guess. Well, I start to doubt if this date is a good choice.
The fourth situation is that I have met a narcissist on Tinder dating app. It's a good behavior to try to show your strengths in front of potential partners. But if it turns the other person off, you have to give up the idea. After all, there is only a fine line between showing charm and narcissism. I met a dentist on the pure dating app before. He always likes to chatter about how interesting and awesome he is. I can accept this topic for the first time and the second time. But when it came to this topic for the fifth time, I chose to put him on the blacklist. After all, I don't like people looking at me from above, even on casual dating sites. By the way, this boy is as tall as me.
The last situation is that strangers know my full name. This can be bothering for me. After I entered Hinge, it asked me to add my full name. Yes, then, I will receive some messages from rude people. This can give chance to google me, which is not what I want. I can understand some local dating apps ask us to get verified with gestures. But with full name, I don’t think it is a good choice. Foe safety reason, I may never use hinge again. I just want to have a relaxed chats and dating online now.
When it comes to those situation, I will be angry. There is no doubt that some real dating sites work for our normal people. However, I just hope all online sites can be used more comfortably and reliably in the future.
